Wood Tape (2004)

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overtone1000 today at 6:33 PM
I encourage parents that I meet to do something like what the author of this post has done. These days, photos are ubiquitous. Curated memories in your voice are a rarified treasure.

My father encouraged me to journal, but I only really started when my kids were born. For many years now I have kept a private blog that tells the stories of their childhood. They're still young but have already read through it many times. Now, when we are on an adventure, they often remind me to jot something down in my notes to be added to the next entry.

rudyro yesterday at 5:30 AM
Such a cute story. When I give my boy these moments of no-judgement free reign, he can surprise with such elaborate ideas and plans. It really gives me these moments of complete amazement of the human brain capabilities. I think that good parenting is mostly this struggle of keeping consistent boundries while holding on to the idea that they learn most when they try themself.
organised today at 9:09 PM
my wife and I have this note in our notes, which has all the interesting things our son has said since he could talk. Its one of my most cherished things. every single entry brings back a memory.
kiddico today at 8:53 PM
I cannot wait for my sister's kid to grow up a little so I can take him on these sort of trips!
dang yesterday at 4:32 AM
Related. Others?

A lesson on the importance of encouraging your children with their projects - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=2757980 - July 2011 (103 comments)

bmwracer today at 8:02 PM
taking time to document experiences is a gift to your future self
bityard today at 5:05 PM
This is such a good story. I remember reading it when my son was a toddler. It was one of the first times I started to internalize one of the most important parenting lessons I've learned being a Dad:

Never say 'no' to something unless there's an obvious safety issue.

Especially don't say 'no' just because you don't understand the request: that's the time to show them that you're curious about what they're thinking and give them practice explaining their reasoning in a safe and comfortable situation. Kids need freedom to explore their world.

kiddico today at 9:07 PM
I need to get my shit together. This seems incredible. I'm not putting a little one in the shit show I call my life though.
karlgrz today at 8:28 PM
This is an excellent share :-)
forest_brothers today at 6:07 PM
The kid had a plan all along. His dad just took a while to catch on. Glad he rolled with it. Could've easilly ended with buiyng some tape and heading home.
radar1310 yesterday at 7:59 AM
Such a great story and almost impossible to try and read on a phone but I made it to the end. Memories for a lifetime time Dad.
tclancy today at 5:16 PM
The image credits at the end made it even better.
jeffrallen today at 6:35 PM
Improv class made me a better dad. Whatever a kid proposes, the answer is "yes", if you can possibly make it that.
glitchc today at 4:26 PM
Wait, so who built the table?